Meet Your Relationship Coach

I’m Leilani C. Echols, a dating and relationship coach helping people break toxic patterns, build self-worth, and create real, lasting connections. Whether you’re post-divorce, stuck in situationships, or tired of attracting the wrong people, I’m here to help you navigate modern love with clarity, confidence, and zero BS.

With a B.A. in Communication and over 20 years in the tech industry, I bring both structure and emotional intelligence to this work. After a 17-year relationship ended, I reentered a dating world full of apps, acronyms, and entirely new rules. I had to relearn everything—and now I help others do the same.

Today, I live in Redondo Beach with my dog and cat. I met my partner of three years through a dating app. With patience, inner work, and a willingness to grow, I found a healthy, fulfilling relationship.

As a dating and relationship coach, I support people from all walks of life who are ready to change patterns, deepen connection, and build relationships that actually feel good.

• Singles navigating post-divorce dating or repeated disappointment
• People in relationships facing conflict, disconnection, or communication struggles
• LGBTQ+ clients seeking affirming, identity-respecting support
• Polyamorous and non-traditional relationship styles, including ethical non-monogamy
• Those with low self-worth, poor boundaries, or recurring emotional patterns
• Anyone ready to date consciously and build something meaningful